Friday, October 22, 2010

First Baby, Miscarried August 27th, 2010

I found out i was pregnant June 21, 2010. I told my parents a couple of days after.  

 They were very upset, they took me to the hospital demanding me to get an abortion. I was really scared, I didn't want to have an abortion, the cops came and told them they couldn't force me to have an abortion. Tym, my boyfriend, was told by my step dad that he couldn't be allowed to see me anymore. Tym was 21 years old, they tried to press charges on him but in Ohio there is a law of consent at age 16. My step dad also told Tym there wasn't going to be a baby in the picture so there is no need for him to be around. 

I had to do work that a pregnant girl shouldn't do. I had to cut the grass (push mow and tractor) and rake the grass, help put up a pool which I got a heat exhaustion from, and I had to do fire wood by myself. When I was pregnant I couldn't sleep at night so I was up late at night.  My step dad would wake me up at like 7 or 8 in the morning to do chores.  I got yelled at all the time, I was always crying under a lot of stress. 

One of my parents let up and let me start seeing Tym again. Tym took me to care net for a free ultrasound and they told me that they couldnt find the heat beat to go to the hospital right away...I went there and they did another ultrasound and they couldn't find the heart beat either. So they told me I had to get a D&C. My body kept missing that the baby wasn't still alive...

I have been really sad about it...I had to get the surgery on Aug 27 2010. Worst day ever...

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Mommyto8 said...

I am so sorry you went through all of that pain, that was very recent. Thank you for sharing your story. (((((hugs)))))

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